Who is My Neighbor?

December 17, 2018

Categories: Love

One of my favorite stories in the Bible is the Good Samaritan. If you haven’t heard it before, Jesus is talking with another religious leader about what you need to do to inherit eternal life. Jesus asks the guy what he thinks.

What Should We Do?

The religious leader answered, “’Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

Jesus said the guy got it right: “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”

But Who is My Neighbor?

But the religious leader wanted some more information. He wanted some clarification about the second part: “And who is my neighbor?”

That’s the real question, isn’t it? I think if we’re honest with ourselves, we all ask this question in our lives. As Christians, we know we are called to love our neighbor. But who is my neighbor? Surely it doesn’t include [fill in the blank]. We have a hard-enough time loving our family and close friends. Surely the call to love our neighbor doesn’t extend to people who are homeless, people with mental illness, people who abuse children, Republicans (or Democrats), the mean co-worker, etc.

The Good Samaritan

Jesus answers as he often did, with a story: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’”

Then Jesus asks one final question to hammer home the point of the story: “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”

The answer was obvious: “The one who had mercy on him.”

Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

3 Lessons from the Good Samaritan

I think there are 3 key takeaways from the story of the Good Samaritan:

  1. Being a neighbor involves loving with actions. I’m sure the priest and the Levite both felt sad about the man who was beaten up and left for dead. But they didn’t do anything about it. The Samaritan, on the other hand, had pity on the man AND took care of him. Having a loving feeling toward someone isn’t worth anything unless you follow up your feeling with your actions and behaviors.
  2. Love is more important than religious rulesYou miss something important about this story if you don’t understand the Jewish religious purity rules of the day. Religious leaders weren’t supposed to come into contact with blood and death. In a very literal way, they weren’t supposed to get their hands dirty. So, in a sense, by avoiding the man on the side of the road, the priest and the Levite were following their religious rules. But Jesus says that doesn’t matter. Love is more important than following a particular law or rule.
  3. The definition of neighbor is broader than you thinkJews and Samaritans didn’t get along. It’s like the relationship between a Trump supporter and Clinton supporter, except worse. Jews and Samaritans didn’t even associate with one another. Yet Jesus uses a Samaritan as the hero in his story. This would have shocked the listeners of his day. But his message is clear. When we are called to love our neighbor, this means everybody. Even our enemies.


What reactions do you have to the story of the Good Samaritan? Who in your life is hard for you to love? What is one step you could do to love this “neighbor” with your actions?


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  1. […] I think it is interesting that when the rich young man asks Jesus what he must do to get eternal life, Jesus gives a standard answer—keep the commandments. When the rich young man asks for more clarification, Jesus gives him a list—don’t murder, don’t commit adultery, don’t steal, don’t give false testimony, honor your father and mother, and love your neighbor. […]

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